I raise this question, this theory, if you will, because I remember the solace I found in birth control when I was on the pill. Throughout many stages of my life, I encountered non consensual and abusive acts that could have left me with an unwanted pregnancy and I found so much peace in knowing that I was on a contraceptive that I had control over. Similarly, when I was in relationships, I felt so much more relaxed during sexual encounters knowing that we had many protective measures in place to ensure pregnancy wasn’t an issue. Peace of mind surrounding your financial status and removal of possible unwanted pregnancy allows one to be present in sexual encounters, therefore making the sex better.